Compliments for Girls: The Best Times and Worst Times to Compliment

Compliments for girls don't always work. And yes, there are best time and worst times to compliment. The best times to compliment are: 1) If she is into you already, 2) If she doesn't expect the compliment, and 3) If you're already together with her in a relationship.

If she is into you already
The success of your compliment weighs heavily on if she is or isn't into you already. When she is not into you, complimenting her can lower your attractiveness. Assuming that she is either extremely hot or in high demand, complimenting her will categorize you as unoriginal, or even worse, creepy. Unoriginal and creepy guys have a tendency to compliment too much hoping to get attention from hot girls who already get too many of the same compliments from the other guys that are trying to get with her. Bottom line: if she isn't into you yet, don't compliment her!

If she is into you, on the other hand compliments could higher your attractiveness. If this is the case, you can choose to compliment or not compliment whatsoever based on if you want the girl to be more or less into you. Usually, if she likes you, and if you want her to like you more, you can slip in your compliment from time to time, but do not overdo it unless you want your compliments to sound stale. If she likes you, but if you do not want her to like you more, don't compliment her in the least bit. Complimenting her will only lead her on. If you lead her on and you get on her bad side, you just burned bridges with the twenty or thirty other girls she told about you.

If she doesn't expect the compliment
The success of a compliment also weighs heavily on if she expects the compliment or not. The idea is, if you do compliment her, you should compliment modestly and only if she knows that you don't usually give out compliments. When she doesn't expect the compliment, it will come as a pleasant surprise for her. But, if she does expect the compliment and you say something like “You are soooo gorgeous,” you run the risk of instantly decreasing your value to her because you just labeled yourself as just another guy who likes her for her looks. If she knows she can have you that easily, the game will be over because chase will cease to be fun for her. Make her play the game and earn the compliment.

If you're already together with her in a relationship
If you're already together with her in a relationship, this is when you can and should genuinely compliment. This extends back to if she is or isn't into you. When you’re together with her in a relationship, then of course she is into you. The truth is, women like compliments. They want you to compliment them. But does that mean you must always give them what they want, when they want it? Hell no. This is because girls--and guys--want what they can’t have. But it's a little different when you currently have her and she has you. If you're already in a relationship with her compliment when appropriate, but remember, to not overdo it and do it when she doesn't expect it.

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