How to Accept Your Crossdressing Fetish

I started out as a model and have been in the fashion and entertainmentindustry for over 20 years. Later on I became a makeup artist and havemet all kinds of people in every walk of life. Soon men began coming tome for advice about clothing and makeup and I figured it was justharmless fun. After all, that was my job-to make people look theirbest. It turned into a full time career helping them become the girl oftheir dreams and I loved it as much as they did! Over the years I’vealso found that many men have fantasies of being forced to wear women’sclothes, to have no choice but to be dressed in a lacy bra and pantiesand act like a lady often in front of a group of women. This fetish iscommonly known as Forced Feminization. It most often involves a situation where they have no choice but toobey my wishes. The threat of blackmail is a very popular theme. Forexample, you are caught stealing my lingerie from a laundry room orclothesline and I threaten to call the police. You plead with me not toand promise to do anything I ask if only we can keep this our secret.And being the understanding person that I am I will give you a choice.Either I teach you a lesson by dressing you up from head to toecomplete with makeup, and possibly a trip to the beauty salon or haveyou arrested. As strange as this may sound it is a huge fantasy formillions of men all over the world. There are as many different levels to this as there are fetishes. Forsome the highlight is simply to be threatened and to agree to theconsequences. For others the thrill is the slow but thoroughfeminization which they are powerless to stop. Many men also like thehumiliation aspect of this and it is necessary to complete theirexperience. Of course some want to take it even further but that is notsomething I do. I have found that if something like wearing women’s clothing gives youpleasure and doesn’t hurt anyone else then by all means enjoy it. Theproblems that arise stem more from the guilt and confusion that so manyof these people feel. For their whole lives they were taught to ignorethese feelings and act like a man while part of them wants to wear acocktail dress and heels and sing “I Feel Pretty”! This is wherethe idea of “Forced” comes in. If they are forced to do it, and nolonger have a reasonable choice then the guilt is removed and they canbe free to enjoy it. It is no longer a choice but a consequence.Brilliant! Problem solved! There is still a tremendous amount of conflict though and as a makeupartist and Dominatrix I feel it is my role to help out in any way Ican. While some men actually have a closet full of dresses and enjoythis fetish, many others just fantasize about it in between beatingthemselves up for thinking about it. If later on they decide to startwearing panties to work under their business suit and it makes anotherwise miserable job a bit better then my work is done. As a side note there is one thing I have to insist on. If you do decideto wear panties please buy tasteful ones! Never buy ones with littlesayings on them and under no circumstances ever but seven pairs withthe days of the week on them.That’s just wrong!

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